Where are all the single guys?

in uni, i had a crush on a guy who already had a girlfriend across the ocean. which actually kinda lasted quite long, since he was also very nice to me. and i was doing nothing wrong. i didnt flirt or make a pass or anything. it was just a very unhealthy infatuation.

i mentioned a few times i started dancing. i also had a brief crush on my dance instructor, whom is already known for having a wife and a son. but i guess that is to be expected. i mean,being in his arms, when he wants to demonstrate a certain move, i feel kinda safe, even when he twirls me around many times and i dont fall. i guess that is what people mean when they say they want to be in strong arms?

recently, i got to know a certain someone, who has been calling and sending messages and trying to get me to go out with him. i just found out from reliable sources, that he has a son. of course, in all our meetings and conversations, i've never really asked if he was married. since i'll be seeing him tomorrow, i guess i'd better ask him about it, before i start to have feelings, and start crushing another woman's man. right?